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Master the sex lingo

Read about the lesser known signs from your mate, which would help you decode their sex language easily. Experts too lend some handy tips.
Master the sex lingo
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Yourbody language and actions speak louder than words, at least for a healthy sexualrelationship. There are several signals and gestures from your partner whichnormally you may miss on a routine day. But often it's these expressions of lovethat indicate that your partner is all set for a night ofpassion.
From planning a lavish dinner,getting clad in sexy outfits to exchanging naughty messages throughout the dayor showering your lover with surprise gifts...
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these are indications that yourpartner wants to get cosy. Now it is entirely up to the other partner as howquickly they catch these clues and get ready for some bedroomaction.
We list some of the lesser known���signs��� from your mate, which would help you decode their sexlanguage easily. Experts too lend some handy tips to make this ���readbetween the lines��� experience moreexciting...
Dressedto kill: How often would you see yourpartner clad in a sexy revealing attire without any occasion? Not each day, ofcourse! But if their sensuous style of dressing grabs your attention, it���svery likely that they are angling towards an intimate session. Flauntingsee-through lingerie in sensuous shades of red often points out that a womanexpects to beloved.
Hottip: Body language expert Rita Gangwanisuggests, ���Make it a point to indulge in a sensual play with a provocativeundressing to ignite sexual passion. The best way is to go slow because thecharm gets lost if you undress all at once, so instead play a game and ask youmate to shed clothes one byone.���
Kidsare fast asleep: Some partners have atendency to baby-sit their kids or remain indulged with teenage kids despite theother mate waiting to make love. In such cases with the kids around, the passiongets spoilt. So what if your mate has got the kids to go to bed early on aparticular night? Well, there are chances that he/she is charged for a steamyromp.
Hottip: Relationship counsellor Dr. ChitraBakshi says, ���When one partner has made sure that the kids do not come inway of their private moments, they need to be extra discreet about theirlove-making acts. The couple shouldn���t make much noise, as couples tend toget hyper during these acts, so the best would be to do it on the floor. Also,make sure that locks are working properly and curtains aredrawn."
Magicwith aphrodisiacs: Cooking delectabledishes is the best way to tempt your partner. And if the ingredients happen tobe aphrodisiacs, there is no reason that your partner would not understand thesexual signs. Aphrodisiacs like grapes and strawberry are ultimate wonderfruits. You can dip them in whipped cream and invite you partner to tasteit.
Hottip: Psychologist Dr. Ratan Kumar states,���Once it has been conveyed through a romantic dinner that you���re onfor a sexual session, make sure that you relish the food by serving each otherin a loving manner. Best would be to treat each other sensually, which wouldhelp keep the mood alive for passionate moments inbed.���
Breaktime fromoffice:It's not very often that your partner heads back home early or takes a leavefrom office without any reason just to be at home (with you). But if they do andmore so, if they put their mobile on the silent mode, it���s apparent thattheir romantic senses are highlystimulated.
Hottip: Rita asserts, ���When your matehas shown a clear interest for some wild action, all you need is to make surethat you too arrange for a break from your workplace and enjoy the pleasure.Once that���s in place, utilise the time to build an exotic environment inyour bedroom and let your partner know that you���re equally gearedup.���
Surprisesto woo: One of the most predictable waysof reading your partner���s mind is the love surprises that they give in theform of gifts. Though it���s not always that giving a gift implies theirintension to get intimate, but on certain occasions when the gift comesunexpected or reminds you of some intimate moments cherished earlier, it mightbe that your beau wants some hotpassion.
Hottip: ���Whenever gifts are of a sexualnature like a red flower, a card with some intimate images, lingerie or s headyperfume with an arousing smell, it���s a clear hint that it���s time fora lovemaking night. You just need to ensure that you express it to the otherpartner that you loved their gifts and it has actually aroused your sexualsenses,��� recommends Dr.Chitra.
Naughtytexts do the talk: Not many couples preferexchanging romantic messages with their better half during his/her office hours.But if either of the partners is sounding keen and sending naughty messagesrepeatedly, it might clearly point out that they want some hotsex.
Hottip: ���A text message is possibly thebest medium to express what���s on your mind at a given time. Here, thepartner on the receiving end must try to respond in a similar way so that thesexual passion is at its peak by the time they reach home. But do not give ineasily and let the other partner keep guessing about your mood,��� advicesRita.
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